I met almost all the people I kinda dated, including my partners up to now, through projects I worked on or after working on stuff for them.

I also met most of my friends this way. Which is pretty logical because I usually date my friends.

What I do is the base of my social life.

Despite what some people here sometimes say, one does not exclude the other in any way.

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    shouldn't exclude the other in any way. However some will insist. My ex used bitch at me for pulling my laptop out while we had the tv on, only to turn around and ask me what the fuck she just missed because she had spent the past 10mins scrolling through facebook memes.
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    What @Alice said.
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    That's cool if you work with more people of the other gender with you! I work on a startup 100% male :|

    And to make things harder, I'm one of the founders, and I'm 200% commited to making this work, so I work 24/7 if needed! :P
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    @rui902 Who said I work with people of the opposite gender?
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    @Alice I was talking about my reality, and I won't be guessing a lot just from a few comments!

    What I meant was, you're lucky to be meeting people who you can also be dating on your projects
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    @rui902 Ah, now I understand your comment, sorry. I read it with a wrong "sound" to it, what changed the sense of it.
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    @rui902 @Alice You know technically speaking y'all probably have about the same odds of meeting someone at work 😅
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    Although @rui902 if your a founder then you might could've brought more women into the project. Not sure that would be the proper motivation for doing so, but then "love & war" and all that.
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    @M1sf3t I've had interns in the past, mixed genders, but I'm not gonna start dating the people I hire just because I love girls ahah I had one super cute tbh, but I avoided even thinking about it, so we're just friends now!

    I don't really want to hire people just because I can, and also we're very small still, so I have to carefully hire everyone based on what the company needs... We only hired two guys because it was based on their efforts and results as interns!

    We actually made an offer to a female intern, but she got another (better) one and we could not top that...
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    @M1sf3t Also, I didn't understand your comment about having the same odds (?!) ahah
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    @rui902 because y'all would both seem to prefer females and whether they happen to be bisexual or heterosexual, there doesn't seem to be many out there in the developer community period. Relatively speaking of course.

    Also, I wasn't actually suggesting you hire a women with then intentions of increasing your odds, that was a joke 😂
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    @M1sf3t Ahah , I never know, just to make things clear :P
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