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bartmr25522dIf you were totally over about your past relationship, you would've pushed the branch and moved on with your life, like it was business as usual.
You wasted your time, and still didn't deliver value to the project.
You took it personally.
All this without your ex-boyfriend even knowing.
Unfortunately, this kinds of emotional stuff happens in projects more often than not, and spaghetti code is normally behind some ego based decisions.
bartmr25522d@jennytengsonM Yeah, but it's not good to allow it to spread to another areas in your life. Grieving should not make our mood take the lead. Same thing with OCD, and other stuff that keeps our mind racing to the past or the future. It's ok to think about something from the past or the future, but not ok to act on it.