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So...im having a lot of issues with people messing with my emotions because of how sensitive I am.
I lost a lot of confidence in myself a while back and grew sensitive. I don't know what to do and I don't understand why people have to be so mean :(
A girl today was laughing at me cause I couldn't figure out something in class and I feel useless.
Two guys have already messed with my emotions and led me on.
A lot of people don't hang out with me like before and no one wants to hang out with me. Another girl said I was clingy and annoying and I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. I just want to be loved :((

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  • 4
    4y
    There are different solutions for that common issue, but none that you will find online. Seeking validation on social media isn't worth anything. I highly advise you to get professional help.

    Good luck.
  • 0
    4y
    Biatch, focus on what is important instead of letting your self go into those stupid thoughts.

    btw, do you what is always useful?
    Learn how to laugh about yourself, that will improve your self esteem :)
  • 0
    4y
    People don't want to hang out with you because you're a useless whiner.

    That was easy.
  • 0
    4y
    This is why you don't expose yourself in a dev forum. Because most devs are shit talking to people. Which leads them to being salty and even more shitty. Or being stepped over by HR people or managers

    I recommend reading "The obstacle is the way" and "How to Win Friends and Influence People" from Dale Carnegie‎". "Power of Now" was also very useful when I started coding. Remember, your advantage in the tech industry is not actually knowing everything, but how you hang out with people. In 2 years of talking to people you can get more than 10 years just coding. Good luck
  • 1
    4y
    Not to sound harsh or anything but are you aware what kind of community this is?
  • 1
    4y
    This is for ranting about code not for feelings.

    But here's some advise. Stop caring about what others think of you and focus on yourself and what you want.
  • 0
    4y
    Sry but since when are all the people so negative here. Yes I know devRant is for rants. But really... Don't step on the emotions of other people because it's not the content you expected. And even with filtering there are only 2-3 real rants on 100 posts. Are you up to the task of spamming every other "rant"? Get your shit together or leave.
  • 0
    4y
    @ShotgunSurgeon dude don't reply to me when there's other people above that are way more negative. Just cos the comments soured you and I was the last comment.
  • 0
    4y
    I didn't reply to you or can you see any mentioning of your name?
  • 0
    4y
    @ShotgunSurgeon it popped up in my notifications you did.
  • 1
    4y
    @boredtaco What popped up in your notifications is that someone replied in the thread. See how the notification now looks when actually replying to you.
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    4y
    I see... you really know how devRant works. Of course it pops up, as you commented. Everyone who commented gets a notification. You are nothing special even if your parents always said so. Bye.
  • 0
    4y
    @ShotgunSurgeon Jesus Christ dude the f is your problem. Yelling at us for being negative...
  • 0
    4y
    @jennytengsonM yeah sorry. Made a mistake. I assume I can turn that notification off.
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