me when i was trying to leave vscode and atom

You either do or do not switch from one IDE to another, there is hardly any in-between.

I switched from VSCode to NVIM a couple of months ago.

If you need to learn the basic functionality, try to save a weekend for yourself and get yourself a setup running that fits your current needs.

You may need to switch between your IDEs sometimes (especially when you do not have a peer who uses your new IDE) but you'll be there fairly quick.

What did you choose ?? Idk why not into emacs, vscode is doing fine to me, want to use vim though.