Watch Naruto!

Nothing motivates more than them Naruto's "talk no jutsu"

Watch Noragami.

I don't know how it helps in this case but watch it.

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(Also: Evangelion, FLCL, Erased, Kokoro Connect, Death Note, Paprika, The girl who leapt through time, Haruhi Suzumyia, Summer Wars, Me!Me!Me!, Shelter, Your name, Hotarubi no mori e, Akuma no riddle, Btooom, Brave story, 5cm per second, ... okay I'll stop)

a summer wars. good film.
you should also watch fairy tail and death parade