I'm going through a rough time in my relationship, switching my job next month and moving to a new place because I didn't have shit to do at my current job and I just always felt like I was wasting my time at this job. I've been feeling very low and unsatisfied with my life over the past few months. It feels as if I'm constantly abusing myself in my mind, comparing myself to my older self and my past when things were better both professionally and personally for me. I don't feel motivated to work on my personal projects or learn anything new. I don't know what to do anymore or where to get motivation from. It almost feels like the part inside of me which I liked the most is dead. I don't understand what's wrong with me.

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    I've been where you were and on some days till am, but you're not alone - nor will it be something that you cannot overcome. I'm going to be honest and skip the platitudes, you and you alone can get yourself out of this, but - you can and should ask/seek help or distractions to give you 'breathing space' ground yourself and recharge. Start with little steps to get that 'spark' back and find something that can be your crutch till' that 'spark' ignites your enthusiasm/love for what you do or want to do.

    I wish you the best my friend and it will get better; how fast that happens is up to you.
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    I believe it's called being in a rut. I've been there myself and a change of job, scenery and outlook helped.
    Good luck!
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    @CoffeePanda I'm trying hard. Maybe one day I will feel good about things. But right now, it's pretty tough.
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    @kgbemployee I'm changing my job starting Feb, maybe that'll improve things, maybe not. I'm spectical.
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    @thecode hope it works out for you. Good luck!
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