Surviving loneliness day after day...

It's just a small obstacle in life imo.

@orhun I hope so. 3 months and am still hoping to overcome this obstacle. Or maybe get used to it.

get the fuck outside and out of your comfort zone

@github You can try to focus on other things in 'serious' way. It helps.
I feel similar when I finish a project or something else. Like I have to go out and be more social.
But ey, I'm a dev. Got no social life!
So find something to do and focus on that hard.

You're the one who decides how much it can have an effect on you.

Lonely gang rise up.

Best thing is to join an activity group. Sux for the first couple of weeks but living experiences with people is what makes them stick together.

Find an experience to be lived.

Camino de santiago. Go for some rraveling. Join a hikers club，boardgame.....

@nitnip kind of agree with you, people like @github make me question their control abilities

Thanks all for the suggestions.
It's been little tough for me past few months.
Whenever I give my 200% at work, the project gets screwed up due to reasons beyond my control.
I am even having a hard time hanging out with all my close friends as everyone's priority has changed and I respect and completely understand them.
I am trying my best to enjoy being myself, have my own time and explore, take part in outdoor activities, but while doing all these, I am lacking social aspect.
Like, I have no one to call and make sudden crazy plans. No one I can just be carefree and hangout. It's a lonely life, and I agree, I need to change my attitude towards it.
It's all easy to say to not think, but it's difficult to always stick to it. Specially when you lose your close friends and even work isn't going great.

do you like traveling?

I'm a loner too and dreaming up and research crazy travel routes, and visiting as many countries as financially possible, are one of those ersatz activities that let me somewhat forget that I'm aren't that good with social interaction.
My next idea is to travel from Istanbul to Tokyo by train, bus, camel and ferry.
😊

@heyheni wow. That's really amazing. I really liked your enthusiasm and planning.
I have been recently learning different algorithms to keep myself occupied.
I am kinda scared of traveling solo. Though, got a group with whom I will be going to Bali this new year.