Lost my main job due to corona. All I have left now is my few personal gaming projects which generate decent money (usually around 2k euro a month but during corona jumped 3x 4x). I am trying my best to take care of my projects now because its all whats left. Last 2 weeks spent applying for jobs and did really well in 2 of them however didnt received an offer because they cancelled recruitment proccess all together. Meanwhile my gf lost her job and spends most of time in home. While Im trying to cashout as much as I can from my projects so that we could have a better future, she started nagging me about how I work too much and seems depressed. Srsly this fcking pandemic is killing me. Working from home is already hard enough, but being stuck in home with no opportunity to have time for myself while Im the only grown up is fucking killing me. Fuck off everyone Im tired of your needs, I have my own needs as well. If Im telling you that I need a couple weeks to finish my projects then fuck off leave me in peace. 2 weeks wont change shit but at least I would be able to make money for our house women. Stop being needy and start being fucking supportive or this will not going to work out.

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    I never understood partners like this. When I was with my ex, I never disturb him when he's working but he does it to me all the time as if my work mean less than his. It's especially annoying when you're trying to debug something. It's like you're haflway through a maze then someone just lifted you up and dragged you back to the beginning. I fucking hate it.
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    did you show her what you are working on? And did you have a decent talk? I hope you understand she needs some support and it could be that she thinks you hide behind your work to avoid to soothe her pain of the job loss. So maybe schedule some time for you both per day. Suprise her by cooking something nice for supper? But most importantly have a talk, ranting on devRant about her is not fair and iloyal against your parter. I wish you best of luck with your love and your project and future. 💛
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    @heyheni W-T-F??? Dude works his ass off because she's jobless anyway, and then HE has to take care and cook shit ON TOP OF HIS WORK?

    If anything, SHE ought to show appreciation that he keeps their asses afloat, and SHE ought to cook something nice.

    Your idea has that totally backwards, and all it will do is nurturing a struggling GF into a full-blown entitled bitch.
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    Main problem here is that Im overworked and stressed, emotionally unavailable most of the time. I know that Im not perfect also, got here just to let off some steam, not looking for solutions.
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    I hope things ease up on you soon as well man. This situation is hard and it is facing people with things that they did not anticipate. Stress and anxiety have a way of fucking up the way people normally act towards one another and I seriously hope you see some light soon.
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    I feel you. You're a man and you need to provide. You are doing good job
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    I've had similar problems with family. I tell them "if you like having food and the rent being paid on time then STFU"
    If some social distancing doesn't work then maybe in the future you should consider house cats instead of house women.. they're assholes too but cuter.
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    Man thats fucked up. Given the situation all you should be hearing from her should be “agagaggagaggaggh” and “would you like a sandwich?”
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