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AmbientTea49336dI'm not responsible but I've been adulting for some time now.
It all just happens when it has to. One moment you're a carefree student, next you start working and supporting yourself and maybe another person and you just have to do things whether you have the strength today or not.
Humans in general act more easily with their backs to the wall.
You just get into habits. And often you just do the bare minimum and that's fine too if you're drained.
It's easy to fuck around when dad's paying the bill and mom making food every day. I used to be like that and now I really believe in making kids take care of as much of their own shit early as possible without overburdening them. Would have helped me.
Also, you're not your job. You can stay a rank employee and self actualize some other way. There's not enough secret CIA psy-op funding for us all to be the next zuckerbergs anyway.