If you are afraid , the people who love you , respect you or look at you for support would also be afraid. Depending upon the relation, you could either getting a solution from that afraid person, more fear or just an angry response(your boss doesn't pay you for being confused about situation). So being confused/afraid/vulnerable is not a good trait all the time.

Conversely you can't be all boasty about stuff and roam confident if you are really shitting pants inside. You being confident in something is going to create an air of confidence and trust among the people around you : your loved ones, stake holders , bosses etc. But do you really want that level of responsibility when you are not confident weather you could or could not achieve the task?

So do decide what version to use and where.


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