I like my little chaos, I am thriving there. :)

Exactly how it is everywhere. I modularize my backend from time to time but still, I would describe it like this. Good one. 😆

My front-end looks like that, lmao

Always found these memes misleading.

I feel like what they mean is:
What the user sees - pretty design
What the dev sees - messy code

But they end up incorrectly equating frontend code with the desing/UI

Cause in terms of code I rarely feel the frontend code is prettier than the backend code.
Backend could just be a bunch of neat routing
Frontend is a ton of hacky injected html, weirdo browser compatibility hacks etc

That backend really shows a severe lack of proper thread managing. Not sure if Erlang could be of any use here though...