What’s with all these people saying, “reach out to help for me anytime!” - but when you actually ask for help, they never respond? Like damn looks like I can’t trust ya cad ass anymore.

Its a formality.

Just like New Yorkers saying "We should get a coffee sometime"

Or Londoners saying "You should come to my place for dinner sometime"

Ah shit, I wanted to end this list in a funny punchline but can't think of one.

@SidTheITGuy or Berliners saying: “come to my community grassroots startup sex dungeon”

Ghosted is worse than polite denial though imo. Just keep expectations at zero, always works

You asked a question and they don’t know the answer. Rather than admit they don’t know the answer you are ghosted.