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So I was chatting a girl for a long time, bla bla, met a lot, recently she told me she doesn't like me no more as she used to.
Fuck it, lived through this mental meltdown, chatting on, meming, having fun times. I at some point got sentimental and wrote "it's a shame you don't like me no more"
She took it personally, told me that it was not a pleasant message to recieve, questioning if I am not accusing her of being guilty in all my problems.

Now, English is my mother tongue, but I need halp to figure out what exactly can be here offensive? It's literally saying "it's saddening that you explicitly don't like me anymore"
P.S. i might be just a despicable person, I do not exclude this option

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    It would be easier if you added exactly what she said. There are two reasons why she got mad:

    1. She probably worked hard to disregard her feelings for you. Saying what you said, probably triggered her feelings, when she wants to forget them.

    2. She probably thinks you are arrogant and that you like it when she has feelings for you, when you don't feel the same.

    Either way, she misunderstood what you wrote.
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    @Michelle second one appears to make sense
    Thank you, now it's clearer
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    Out of curiosity where was the girl from, I've had this experience with my wife a few times where she takes things completely wrong as to what I meant, and it mostly happens when I talked with girls from her country.
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    @Eqb8 lol
    Russia, dude
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