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Why? What value did she add to your life? What was that special thing she brought to your life that no other girl can bring? Think hard about this and you will see that you'll be just fine.
And in any case, they ain't worth the trouble. -
Braed2966yYou'll get over her, honestly. I have had breakups from a 3 year and a 2 year relationship. They were both horrible - I became depressed and suicidal. I had to attend therapy.
What helped me get over my last ex was talking to other girls and realising she wasn't all that great despite the fact that I thought she was amazing. You kinda get starstruck in a relationship and forget that there really are plenty more fish in the sea. I remember thinking that I'll never love again, and then six months later I met someone and have now been with them for 8 months.
One more piece of advice, and its common advice but I found it helpful, is to work on yourself. Code more, clean more, go out more. You'll gain confidence which is important for you right now, especially if your relationship was codependant.
Good luck and stay strong. It will all play out nicely, I promise.
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