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baewulf
5y

The effect of the scoring system is interesting.

On Facebook, where I usually spend most of my social media time, I have been training myself to NOT comment unless I really wanna engage, because I have an IRL habit of just talking shit just to hear myself speak that bleeds into my Facebook engagement, which is a character flaw I’m trying to change.

On here though, I will see something I wouldn’t normally respond to and I’ll comment cause I want those ++s.

BUT the quality of my comments on here are generally way “better” (more meaningful, usually kinder, etc) than my FB comments, obvi because I want those ++s and on Facebook I can be as dumb and mean as I want without having “consequences” aside from the obvious social consequences of people thinking I’m an asshole...but on here it kinda forces me to be more mindful of how I’m engaging with people

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  • 3
    You blew my mind!!

    You have a really deep thinking
  • 3
    I wouldn't call dev rant bringing out one's whoring traits a positive thing but whatever floats your boat.
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    I guess it's not only the way the system is implemented that makes you want those ++s. I really think the community here is really good and really supportive. if course every rule has its exceptions. but for the most part the community here is f ing amazing.
  • 5
    @Admin-who yeah, I have my complaints, but overall this is a great space!
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