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jespersh717016dAsk him how he wants to be remembered
I'm sure you've already done this, asking him/his family 'Is there anything I can do?', and gotten the response 'No, we're good' or something like that.
No one would ever respond "I have been wanting new binoculars". IMO, the best way to show your love is doing something he would never, ever ask for.
"What would that be?"
Excellent question, it doesn't have to be a large amount, but perhaps a start for a college fund for his kids. Can start out a few hundred or few thousand dollars into a 529 college savings account that (assuming you live in the US).
Just one idea of many. Don't ask for permission, just do it.
Again, cancer sucks.
kosherRage2815dI feel for you bro, I have a friend who is in the same situation with cancer. Life is shorter than we like to imagine it is. I hope your friend doesn't have any regrets and can have peace in his last moments.
Hazarth105315dI too lost a dear friend to this cancer shit, and she wasn't even 30... I fucking hate this fucking thing and I essentially think about her every couple of days... The loss gets better, but you don't ever really stop missing the person. Im really sorry you all have to go through this too
matt-jd715dI feel for you, a good friend of mine just 20 yr got ball cancer that has already spread