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Ezard
7y

As the only introvert in my family (parents plus 2 siblings) - anyone got any tips for trying to make them understand?

I'm fine dealing with short, occasional social gatherings, just not the frequent, extended ones that extroverts appear to enjoy

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    2 words. "fuck off"

    You are who you are and as your family it is their blood duty to respect that and in your case, fuck off and leave u alone. They do not deserve an explanation...
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    Once I was introvert... Then, one day, I decided to don't give a fuck about the social outcomes or the ideal ways to achieve communication with any different person, and I found myself comfortable with any kind of extroverts\introverts. 🙃
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    @RTRMS Additional criterion - I'd like to stay on somewhat good terms with them haha
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    @irene it was a matter of selfish happiness. I can't achieve that if every outer social interaction made me uncomfortable and so unhappy, I thought it was stupid to be unable to overcome the uncomfort, so I came with the "fuck it" rule, which is a matter of switching the overthinking\stressful social phenomenon state from "I care" to "I don't care". Later on, from this choice, I learned that can live and enjoy both of those spectrums in peace, and achieve happiness from being easily able to express both of them 🙃
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