Should there be more standards in linux to increase the ease to develope for multiple distro's, without the worry of stuff working on one distro and not in anothers, because i believe it has a major part of why developers dont develope for linux.

That's the essential effort of container technology. Docker, Ubuntu snaps, etc. It's a cycle though. In the before time developers came up with package managers, like yum and apt. Now every distro picks one. It will be the same with containers. One day there will be ten of them, and each distro will have their own lol

compiling from source is distro AND time less. (If you have enough time ofc)