There is a girl that I like, but I'm too shy to talk to her about my feelings. Time to make an app or hack her phone to show my feelings lul

OK. I'm not going to dismiss this out of hand. I'm open-minded.

What would the app do and what would you do after hacking her phone?

@platypus It was more of a stupid thought that I had in my head, and decided to post it. Probably gonna just talk to her or something.

Your last suggestion sounds very wise. I'd run with that.

The very fact that you visibly have been "shy" makes your chances already low, and if you then start out with "feelings", the only feeling that you will harvest is getting burnt. The whole approach is wrong on so many layers.

@Fast-Nop I haven't been shy talking to her. But we were always talking more like friends, as she is older. I actually never acted shy around her, but I'm always shy when it comes to confessing feelings, no matter who I'm talking to

Why don’t you just look for the signs if there’s any and make your move? Worst case you just apologise and tell her that you might got it wrong but you’ll get at half a kiss closer to her.

Don't confess feelings ffs. Just ask her out to the cinema and a meal. Or something she is into. Then if you enjoy yourself say that and have something else lined up for the following weekend.

@davehuk There's nothing wrong with confessing feelings m8.

I think unless you've been good friends for years it's a bad idea. Just go out on dates and work it out from there. If she don't want to go out for a drink or a tech meet up and pizza you'll probably crash and burn on telling her you dream about her etc.

@davehuk You should know a person before knowing you actually developed feelings for the person or just want to have an excuse to have sex with them, of course. I presumed the first situation is the case.

++ on not confessing. Confessing is for the weak. Also these kind of ppl preaching about TDD. Don’t you ever believe them. Just develop feelings and abandon the project if It’s becoming messy like a real man. You’ll get a bunch of different experience if you go for the amount not the quality. Some might say ‘only in starting a project’ but you know what? If you get something wich worth it, you’ll know it because you just feel these things. You are going to grow up for the task of scaling that project and if not, you can go to a consultant and get over with it or just leave that fking project to chase that ridiculus reiki master guy, and talk shit about her on devRant. But in this case, you had a bunch of other project to get back to, also the routine to go for a new one.

@cruelnotes not sure if sarcasm or not, please clarify

@filthyranter A good joke is that you don't need to explain, so I guess my bad