I posted this and I think I truly helped myself today.

@sudocode I can understand. Some people should labelled as they are. Giving birth does not mean that you can become a father.

@sudocode Seems such men are doing something right - considering that he has had wife and mistress while nice guys stay incels.

@sudocode Africa?! Sounds like too little money and/or too much police after him for Thailand.

@Fast-Nop That shit happens EVERYWHERE!

@Demolishun It didn't happen IN Africa. I took it that the douchebag went TO Africa. Nobody does that, actually they're trying to get out of there.

The only ones who go to Africa are Chinese workers after China has bought yet another country for its raw materials. China has looked at how decades of independence have invariably resulted in shitholes, and the conclusion was not to rely on these people for anything.

I don't really get the China / Africa stuff...

But to the post it self: Humans.

We can be nice. We can be misanthropic arseholes hellbent on destruction of mankind.

Just because some person had sex doesn't mean he has any privilege / right to be part of your life, even if your life was the result of said action.

"What's done is done".

I thought I was reading about myself for a bit but step-father in my case.
Suffice it to say that my Dev job is largely responsible for my life turning out for the better despite crap happening.