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Awlex
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I'm just fucking glad this day is over

* less than 3h of sleep thanks to insomnia
* unable to get breakfast
* unable to concentrate at work
* Almost falling asleep
* Lunch was not even enough to sate my hunger
* Accidentally upset a good friend because I cannot communicate well in general, but even worse when tired
* Get something snitched away from my by cutting in line
* get told by said person that I should have reacted faster
* get told by said person that they'll sell me the the thing that was supposed to be mine in the first place
* get a half assed apology when they saw that they made me mad (still keeping mentioned item)
* Don't get to meet up with friend for workout
* Get home and don't even wanna do anything

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  • 2
    I hope tomorrow’s better for you, friend.
  • 2
    We all have good and bad days bro.

    Sending a virtual hug. I hope you feel better soon.

    And as @Wisecrack once said, sleep solves many problems.
  • 0
    Can you slap said person in the face while you take the thing?
    Your comment should than be "should have reached faster"
  • 0
    The big thing I found from a recent confrontation I had at work is this: It can be easy to fall into being annoyed by the expectations of others intent or motives.

    And confronting them about how they treat you may prompt them to treat you like that more.

    When the truth is this is entirely them, and the best way to shut down behavior like that is to be straightforward and even keeled.

    Just set boundaries of what is acceptable and unacceptable. Do it now. And the way boundaries work is there are consequences for crossing them. So if they say or do x, you respond with y, maybe thats telling a supervisor, maybe thats ending further conversations that aren't in a professional context (minimizing contact where possible). This is courtesy and professional by definition.

    If they do x, I make it clear I don't want x done.

    I may or may not make it clear what I will do in response, as to limit potential retaliation. etc.

    Boundaries: Use em. They work.
  • 0
    Sorry you had a shit day. 🤗
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