Trying to program at all when your soulmate that you've been together with for over 14 years moves to her mother because of relationship problems. And suddenly you feel like a truck is crushing you constantly. Ah fuckit

Thats fucked up mayne. I hope your wk53 is as short as possible.

I've been there too bro.

I'm feeling you, bro! But keep being optimistic, you two will overcome bad times!

@lorki97 let's hope that couples therapy will help us. The only place where I can forget that for a minute is the skatepark.... So you'll find me there now even more often

@mrmarbury you can teach me skating, and don't worry every Relationship has ups and downs

@lorki97 come to Munich then ;) or to Seattle, where I will visit a friend mit June :D

@mrmarbury isn't even as far away as thought! Austrian here :D

@lorki97 habadere!

@mrmarbury grias di!

Be strong dude, don't let this take you down. Like they said here, go skate! Have some fun, avoid the burndown

@mrmarbury it really depends on the situation, but try to keep yourself from dwelling too much in imaginary conversations, arguments, and attempts to figure out hypothetical solutions.
This isn't a context where the "debugging" approach generally works, and trying to do so will only suck up your energy.
Plus, your gf may also not like any "debugging" attempt of yours to "patch" things as if you were eager to bring your relationship "up and running" ASAP, as nothing happened.
I believe you took a wise decision seeking for help from a professional