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				 netikras34619338dPfft.. That's the Beginner level. netikras34619338dPfft.. That's the Beginner level.
 
 Add 3 kids [newborn, preschooler and a 1st-grader], a side gig [contracting] and a house reconstruction project. And weekends with family activities. All that on top of 'wife and an FTE job'.
 
 Then we can talk. If anyone's got it figured out - let me know. While I'm still afloat. And not broke.
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				 lungdart3464338d@netikras that's only medium difficulty. lungdart3464338d@netikras that's only medium difficulty.
 
 Wife with two jobs, me working 60h a week and traveling, 3 kids, 1 random who needed housing, a basement Reno to fit more people, and chaperoning my brother and his wife with their new born because they smoked crack with a new baby and protective services got involved.
 
 Also working on my next belt in BJJ so I'm at the gym 3 days a week to keep the rust off.
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				 ars13816338dShe enjoys her alone time as much as I do, so we have both alone and shared time. There isn’t really anything to “handle”. ars13816338dShe enjoys her alone time as much as I do, so we have both alone and shared time. There isn’t really anything to “handle”.
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				 SidTheITGuy9899338d@netikras Seems like I'm on level 1. I only have a wife and no kids. SidTheITGuy9899338d@netikras Seems like I'm on level 1. I only have a wife and no kids.
 
 My wife does have a job for herself though, I get my tasks done when she's in her office.
 
 Pretty much yeah
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				 netikras34619338d@SidTheITGuy don't worry, you'll get there 😁 and even get used to it. netikras34619338d@SidTheITGuy don't worry, you'll get there 😁 and even get used to it.
 
 Being in 2 places at once will become a new norm 😁





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