Just found out this life hack

When people like you; Problems get easier, Job gets easier, life gets easier, everything becomes easier...

So...

Be nice to people

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Fuck off to whatever hole you crawled out of, and stay there this time.

@Liebranca Come on, what happened

That's true, but if you're happy with yourself consider not having any people around you. Makes life very stable. You don't have to be be nice, you don't have to be a bastard. You can full time 100% yourself and will discover your own essence and you'll have a lot of energy and thinking capicity. I always was a socializer, moved to middle of nowhere where I don't know much people and tadaaa, totally zenn. Calmer than ever. Stable life. Also, avoid ads by just paying if the service is worth it (be nice) or block them. Now you have zero influence from outside life. Only the stuff you want in life.

@retoor but wouldn't that be Hikikomori life ? ;-;

@kanyewest @chatgpt what is Hikikomori life?

@retoor
Hikikomori is a term used in Japan to refer to individuals who withdraw from social life and isolate themselves in their homes for an extended period of time. This phenomenon is often associated with feelings of extreme social anxiety, depression, and a desire to escape from the pressures and expectations of society. Hikikomori individuals typically spend most of their time indoors, avoiding social interactions and often relying on the internet as their primary means of communication with the outside world.

@kanyewest ah, you're speaking ninja language. In that case exactly Hikikomori. I do live one at the moment and are very, very happy. But that's maybe with the knowledge of the opposite lifestyle as well. Different for everyone I guess. I like the stability solo life gives. With a partner is just higher and lower emotions. My last one screwed me hard, not the way I like. Every day for me is great, can't remember my last day. Before with rich social life I had multiple bad days a week, but also very good.

Anyway, for me balanced is better. I found out very, very late. Moving to a village was the right thing for me. Ironically I was born in a village. Why did I live for more than a decade in stupid cities? Rat nests full of Rats! Fake people -> RATS! 99.99% of the people around you in the city, you ignore. Everyone should be really thinking about the use of a city if living in one. Not living together but avoiding together? What sad, so sad. Here, everyone says hi on bicycle.

@kanyewest @retoor and if we see a foreigner in this village like @SidTheITGuy we just call the police! "Mr. Police man, there's walking something... Different. Rarely seen it before. It looks very sus! Please come!". It takes 30 minutes before you hear the police because that's how far we're are from civilized world.

Haha, I'm totally kidding. I live in a park with gates around it. It's impossible for certain people to walk in front of my house.

@retoor

> My last one screwed me hard, not the way I like

What happened?

I hope you're alright...

@retoor

> Ironically I was born in a village

I love village

@kanyewest it's now almost two years ago. Partner had a troubled child but I was extremely good with it and even his autism label (he had because he flipped very easily) got removed. The confidence I gave him skyrocketed his school results and everything went great. I was better with the kid and spend more time on the kid than on my partner. Instead of my partner being happy, partner got jealous and showed exactly the behavior as the kid did before. Thus, that's how the kid learned it. Problem is, a kid you can fix. But someone 30+ with issues like that - they'll break you. But again, almost two years ago. Sad that I don't see the kid anymore, also sad for the kid and my parents. The kid loved his new family. Everything was great, paradise. But... One got jealous and fucked up everything. Imagine getting a partner that raises your kids school results and making him happier / relaxter / teaches him to swim & bike. Oh no, the terror. Poor thing. Fucker. If you're jealous at your kid..

@retoor

You did amazing. It wasn't your fault or responsibility. The kid definitely misses you.

But your ex-partner... well fuck him.

It's okay.

@kanyewest you live in the big city huh? How many people live there?

Village is not the same in every country I guess. In the Netherlands, just as in most countries, cities are a bit more progressive. A bit more than I appreciate often.

But in Netherlands when it comes to luxe and maintained streets and stuff, villages are actually better. It's not like in Ukraine, where villages are almost Afrika. I do believe, with more ability to work from home - more people will consider moving to the country side. The village houses are just better and cheaper in comparison. Also, if you raise kids here, they can do whatever they want, race a moped, stay out until late (nothing terrible happens here ever), good social control by neighbors that look out for your kid. You can just kick the kid on the street every day instead of locked in at home in front of play station.

@retoor Not very big, I live in a coastal city. Population is 790K.

That sounds great.

I want to move there. Will I see retoor in the city though? Would love to just see that body.

@kanyewest I thought you think that's I'm AI generated.

Retoor goes less than once a month to the city. Last month I had to go there to court for smashing my car. There was a lot of damage so law suit :P But it's OK now. Justice is served.

@kanyewest he'll miss his grandpa and grandma even more. He was 7 years and my dad teached him how to mow grass with a small tractor and gave him the confidence to do it alone. As a city boy, he never had done such things. My dad did let me drive everything (moped, car) as kid as well and did let me open computers and stuff. That gave me and my brother a lot of confidence to do a lot of stuff. We had small rules like "do whatever you want but don't open a monitor or power supply", besides that we were allowed to do with electronics whatever we want such as speed up cars and even make a light controller table for our hobby disco.

@retoor And then go around to making your own AI powered by a chain of old laptops

@UberSalt haha, is this a random comment or did you see my beautiful self built LLM cloud? Yeah, it's great! One laptop is not old! :P Don't forgot on top of that, the 'cloud' runs on a 4g phone hotspot. Servers on WiFi is too overkill for me. Just kidding, they're also on WiFi connected to the 4g.

Tbh, it works perfect!

@UberSalt i'm working on something cool now. Here it is: https://molodetz.nl/retoor/...

It's a bridge understanding the websocket and http protocol. It's gonna be used to live inject data into http streams while fixing the request length so the protocol stays ok. Else browser keeps on loading. I only have to add the replace function for the content that I want to have different in the stream and update the content-length. Updating content length is as easy by doing headers['Content-Length'] += len(original_data) - len(new_data). I can do it like that, content-length is int already. It's decent as F!

Fun fact: reading a buffer with C char by char has no difference in comparison reading by 4096. In python, this makes a factor thousand difference :P

@retoor I used to think you were AI generated but I think you're sexy now

@kanyewest I look like a kid. Are you pedo? Just kidding, I like myself too.

@retoor I don't think you look like a kid lol you look cute tho