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i havent been on dr in a while, but here goes nothing. i started going out about 3 months ago with a girl who i've been texting a while.

she's everything i've ever wanted and i think about her all the time. this may also be a good time to mention i'm fifteen. well, i'd hang out with her all the time. it's the most fun i ever have. i tell my parents i'd be seeing my friends but i'd be with her or walk to her house. time with her was the best.

and, more recently, i've been engaging in some not-so-appropriate physicality with her.

a few days ago i asked my parents to drive me to my friend's house when i saw the look on their face. they found a used condom with a pregnancy test and some lube too, and they made me spill everything.

it's been a week since i last saw her. she decided to tell her mom what we did on the off chance my parents decided to tell her mom we had sex.

this fucking sucks. i'm grounded and can't do anything. does anyone have any suggestions on what i could do? i think i'll wait out my grounding then just see her whenever i can.

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    What, you were smart and used a condom (hopefully correctly). Not only against pregnancy, but also STD. Thumbs up for taking your responsibility serious, young man!

    I don't see what the issue is unless she is like 12, or unless you live in a conservative area.
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    Why didn't you dispose off the stuff 😅 .
    Anyway, it's fine they are your parents,just being protective, you know the type of trouble sex can get you into. It's good that you were using protection but nothing is 100% safe and if things go wrong ,will *you* be able to handle them ? Think about that. If you feel you will be. Then talk about it to your parents, gain their trust. And if not,wait a little. You'll have a lottttt of time to do this without any fear.
    ( Background : in my country, the parents will do a lot more than grounding, especially the girl's parents 😅 pretty conservative mentally in here. So yeah you can feel happy that you are just grounded for some time and not honour killed ( it's not very common but it does happen )😀 🤣)
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    Love will persist!
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    @Fast-Nop my parents just think it's morally wrong i guess, they are much older than my friends parents however.

    @ceee it was in my bag, i really thought i threw it away, but i guess i left it around. we both were virgins, so stds were unlikely, i know nothing is 100%, but we got pretty damn close by doing it with a condom, doing at the least fertile part of her cycle, and using the day after pill once. if she did get pregnant, which we tested for, she could get an abortion for free from planned parenthood for free without even notifying the parent, so we had everything figured out.
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    @calmyourtities I think you are a pretty mature person. You've taken good care TBH. And yeah try to be safe, and abortion is not a very pleasant thing for you girlfriend as you must be aware. So, I see, you do know how to handle the worst case scenario. Just talk about this, to your parents. Even though it's less likely that they'd be totally chill after that,but atleast they'd feel better that you were responsible.
    They just want you to be their little kid for a little longer. Bear with it for some time,you'd be the master of your own life realy soon.
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    @calmyourtities I guess you should tell your partner to calm their tities
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    @ceee do you think it would be tmi to also say i pulled out
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    @calmyourtities note I said partner (auto correct) but I meant parents
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    @calmyourtities haha, you've been a good boy TBH 😂maybe mention it in the passing , it may help you.
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    @jeeper oh, well it was applicable anyways. my girlfriend was freaking out haha.
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