Haxk20449692yi would say thats fucked up. They choose to have her home so they should be patient. but downloading child porn is another level of fucked up. He could go to jail no problem and nobody could help him at that point.
Drinking and sex have another postition in society in germany than it has in the USA. In general in europe we think that teenagers have to make experience with it. In order to handle this as an adult properly. Also in Germany it's a lot safer than it is in the USA. I've heard that in the us people worry all the time because of the media painting a very dark picture of the world. Shootings, gang violence, personal bankruptcy because of lacking healthcare is nearly non existent in Germany.
Although beeing harassed and treated disrespectful of any kind is not ok. Where ever you are in the world.
You may ask the excange programm to change families.
I think it was like 10 years ago or so that the "PickUp" trend was big among German adolescents. Which explains hitting up random women in trains, especially when they are alone. Dunno whether that's still trendy, I'm not in contact with people that young.
Another factor is where in Germany you are. In the south or in Berlin, it's normal to talk to strangers. In the north, people feel even harassed in shops when staff comes up to them without being asked. May I ask which German state she's in?
As for the language, German as foreign language is a bitch - even French is easier. But some native speakers probably don't realise that, especially when they themselves fail to speak anything else.
No, it's not a "German guy" thing and definitely not socially accepted
They're just being assholes
Sorry to hear that you've had so many negatives experiences with us :/
Thanks for all your input. I’m happy to report that my daughter is being moved to a new family. They just have to find that family first.