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@alexbrooklyn All the nudes were sent over snapchat (I fucking know, but also notifications if pictures are screenshot/saved), and they were actual snaps (taken right then and there, never saved) rather than pictures that were already taken before. Plus I even asked her to take a couple pictures with specific instructions to prove that she was real, and she did it.
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@Santaclauze I think it's possible. I just think it's shitty that it seemed like we had a connection and she just cut me off without a word
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@HollowKitty just because it's on the internet doesn't mean it's any less real. It's like me saying that you're little more than an avatar and forum posts because that's all I see from you over here. Aren't you more than that? And just like that, so are conversations on the internet in general.
@infernalempress I've recently had something like this too. Same thing with conversations, sexting, an attempted date (she never came as she noted the wrong date), etc etc... Eventually ghosted me too. Few weeks went by, wondering why she did what she did.. but eventually I forgot about her. Take a few weeks off, do something that doesn't involve her, to get your mind on something else. Give it some time and eventually things will start to get better again 🙂 -
@SukMikeHok please, do not. I have such stories of my own. The point is to not spam devRant with personal issues like this
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@Condor While it would be understandable that you fell in love with me over devrant, it would also be taken a lot less seriously than if you met me in person, yes.
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@asgs That's why I put that it was a tinder story right at the start, so that if someone didn't want to read a tinder story they could skip over it. But I can put a tag on there next time (if there even is a next time, probably gonna delete tinder anyways).
Also I believe that personal issues are just as important, hence why a lot of my posts have been about my personal life, but if people actually complain about it i can cut it out.
@SukMikeHok @Condor Thanks for the support that i actually needed. I've personally always considered you guys and some of the other people here people that actually care about fellow devs' personal issues. It's just that when I'm not doing well mentally, I'm not motivated to write any code, meaning I won't have any dev stories to share.
The events of the past few days have gotten me kinda down, but I like to have somewhere that i can actually rant about what's going on. But like i said, if people don't want me posting about my personal life then it's whatever, I'll stop. -
@HollowKitty What makes you think that I even *like* you in the first place? I hate it when people put words in my mouth like that. But yes I do agree that meeting someone in person has more meaning. Doesn't make things on the internet any less significant.
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@infernalempress if it makes you feel any better, I also have such tinder stories that suck. I feel your pain, but dR doesn't seem to be the right platform, though there are others who might show an interest in. So, my point was to tag it accordingly so that people can filter their rant feed
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@SukMikeHok Based af
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Another tinder story from last night.
Matched with a girl, I thought she was cute and all. She texted me first, and we started talking. We kinda just clicked, had similar interests and everything. Conversation turned to musicals, she said she wanted me to come listen to one with her at some point when we were both free. I mentioned the whole story from Sunday night to her (see previous rant), and told her how the girl said I was a "rebound", but nothing actually happened. Then she changed the conversation by saying something like "rebounds normally involve sex, maybe I can make up for it".
After that the conversation got sexual. Dirty talk, nudes, everything. Talking about how hard she wanted me to fuck her and everything. That carried on until about 6 in the morning. We both decided we should go to sleep.
I woke up around 11, we talked for a few minutes, then she said she had to get ready for a doctor appointment, and I didn't think anything of it. Went to work at 2, had to go get a car from a dealership like 20 minutes away. Me and my coworker got back, I decided to check my phone and see if she messaged me or anything.
Come to find out, she basically just fucking ghosted me. Blocked me, unmatched me on tinder, the whole nine yards. No warning, nothing. 8 hours earlier she was saying how much she wanted me inside her (not paraphrasing), and now she just decided "nah fuck him altogether".
I don't fucking know what it is. It's been about 10 hours since I found out, and I just..I don't know. She could have just said "nah I don't wanna fuck" and I would have been 100% fine with that. But nope. No warning, just blocked me.
I'm not mad that she just backed out of it, I'm mad that she didn't say fucking anything about it. Like, even apart from all the sexting and stuff, I genuinely liked this girl. She was nice, cute, funny, just everything I could have asked for. And now, I'm honestly kinda sad about it. Everything seemed like it was going well (maybe all the sexting would have been better for another time in the future ya know, but I can honestly say I didn't initiate it), and now I have nothing again.
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