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All my husbands have been engineers, it's a mixed bag. It's good for the relationship, but don't work with your spouse if you don't have 100% compatibility on both sides of the fence.
rutee071151681dI agree with @SortOfTested. My ex was an engineer but boy, we are incompatible in many ways. One of the reasons we stayed together is because we felt like we can't meet other partners who share the same interests. We fought all the time about the dumbest shit.
I met another one, a psychologist. We had so much in common (childhood trauma, perspective, etc.), that it turned serious after just 10 days. It did not work out for the same things that bind us tormented us big time. My rational mind tells me we're enabling each other and are actually toxic for one another. This "connection" is nothing but trauma bonding and being too similar doesn't work.
Your search for "someone like you" can end up being a trap that will waste many years of your life. You can pursue it but give others a chance and don't expect it to work just because you're similar.