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Soo, my GF who I moved to Germany for wrote that we needed to talk on Friday (today is Monday).
I was away for the weekend, and yester I asked what I could expect when I got home.
She wrote that we could hug, but not kiss...
One short phonecall later, she had broken up...

So now I will have to figure out what I will do... I don't have a home anymore (moved into her apartment), my job sucks, so nothing left...

Hold me

She is your GF, I am sure she will forgive you. Just apologize to her (even if you did nothing wrong) and everything will be back to normal. Good luck 👍

Dude, that's horrible. Take a few days for yourself then try to get your ducks in order. There'll be others, just focus on healing for a bit. In so sorry man, I hope things will get better for you soon.

10 I was away for the weekend
20 GF wrote on Friday that we needed to talk when I got back
30 on Sunday I asked GF what I could expect
40 she wrote that she would see me but no kissing
50 I called her to ask what that meant
60 no longer couple

@TheManDK ah! I think the "we need to talk on Friday" is what confused people. Other than that it made sense. Sorry again dude, take care if yourself

@iam13islucky Thank you :)

I'm sorry for you :(

But if you try to see the bright side:
-nothing holds you there now, if you hate your job
-you can apply to jobs anywhere since you don't need to think about your gf or leaving apartment

R u sad? U should be sad but also u should be a lot more happy. Why? Because if a gf leaves u in such a condition, then is she truly ur gf? Ur lucky that u didn't get to live with the wrong one and u can carry on ur search for "the one". All the best man. *hug*

@rik61072 thanks, that really hit home!

Thats fucked up, have a hug!

But always look on the bright side, you now have the opportunity to find a better job gf and a better life.

If you have someone in your home country, try to reach them. If there is no-one maybe try out some other company in Germoney first.

Dude you literally have a open unwritten chapter in front of you. Good luck!

@jespersh why? Are you just trying to kick him while he's down, or it's there something I'm missing?

@jespersh maybe hes just "the man donky kong" :P you never know, and you really should not provoke donky kong in this situation.

She has asked me to move out by the end of the week (only her name on the apartment), will resign my job tomorrow, and guess who just dented the car :(

Doing great? Not so much

@TheManDK dude, my heart breaks for you. Stay safe and take care of yourself. Times are hard but this isn't the end for you. Once you get settled wherever you're going after this, just focus on yourself and your career until you've had time to heal your wounds. If you have any friends that you can hang with don't be ashamed to lean on them a bit, either.

@TheManDK 1 week? What the fuck of a monster is this, seriously?!

@iam13islucky thanks man, I am trying to have coffee (or similar) with someone every day. Now my focus is to arrange somewhere to live until Christmas.

@Hammster it's her apartment, so can't really do anything. Her reason is "to make it easier on both of us" :(

@TheManDK dude you're lucky that you don't have to deal with her anymore. Just that you have a reference how i resolved this issue in a different setting with my ex ages ago. We broke up and i let her stay at the flat until we found her a alternative. Thats the last thing a ex-partner should be capable of doing, at least for the sake of the happy days.

Fuck egomaniacs that only thing about them self.

If you are around Dortmund/Bochum/Essen maybe i can redirect you to some temporary stay ;)

@Hammster thanks for the offer, I'm around Frankfurt, so I will try the AirBnB roulette for now. I really appreciate the thought! :)

Last time I just dropped a gif as an encouragement. I don't wanna advise or comment something for relationship stuffs. Especially when it is happening very recently and the people are emotional.

But man, saw your above update and I am like.

Dafuq is wrong with that bitch. At least wait until you found a fucking place first. If she wanna rush things, she can also find a place for you. 😒 Give some fucking sympathy or respect or whatever for someone who came to her fucking city to be with her. 😡

Thank you all for your nice words! The last week hasn't been the best...
Now I stay at a hotel and will go back to Denmark around Christmas...

I am incredible bored, so suggestions for Netflix shows, bars (close to Frankfurt), anything will be welcomed :)

@TheManDK heard the punisher got a Netflix series. Gun actions might be suitable for you right now. 🤔 Not sure. 😳 Anyway very glad to hear you are doing alright 👍