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They said do freelancing, you can work from wherever you want. But, I haven't left my house even once in last 7 months.

They said do freelancing, you get to take off days whenever you want. But, I haven't taken even a single day off, after starting freelancing.

They said do freelancing, you will have better work-life balance. But I feel like, I just code and go to the gym and sometimes make YouTube videos.

They said do freelancing, it's better security-wise. But, every month I'm fucking petrified thinking if I even will survive and pay my bills next month.

They said do freelancing, you can work and travel at the same time. But, I've been married 7 months now and haven't taken my wife to honeymoon trip yet.

Am I doing freelancing wrong?

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  • 5
    Who told you those lies? XD
  • 4
    well the trick to happiness is to always blame someone else for your own decisions
  • 1
    I have all this in a normal employment. One of us is Doing something wrong.
  • 2
    Wait till they tell you start your own thing (agency or a product) .. that's another rabbit hole
  • 0
    Doesn't it take like 5 years to really get going on a business?
  • 4
    Do freelancing. Earn more, get more greedy, count "time off" as lost income. Repeat.

    It's up to you. You have to freedom to take a break between contracts. You can also take time off whenever the client allows it, because you cost nothing while you're away.

    If you are doing freelancing and not reaping the financial benefit then go back to a normal job. Increased income is the key to all those other perks.
  • 1
    the fact that the _possibility_ exists doesn't change simply because you lack the ability to _act_ on it.

    yes, you're doing it wrong.

    also: "it's better security-wise" - whoever told you that, lied to you.
  • 0
    @tosensei reading you is as pleasant as whiping my ass with a wire spunge
  • 0
    @mostr4am the way your face looks, you seem to have lots of experience, but very bad aim ;)
  • 2
    The freelance fallacy is this: thinking you will have made it in the first year.

    It actually takes at least 4 years to have a reasonable balance and have some financial buffer in the event contracts are over.

    As a freelancer for almost 8 years, it will get better. Be patient, work, pay your taxes and social security, save and in a few years all will be a lot better.

    Also don't bottom out in rate,ask what you would pay yourself for your quality of work.
  • 2
    Doing pure freelancing, with I assume more than one client, yeah, this checks out. I think you're probably "doing it right". Sounds like a cool lifestyle, but I'll say that I was relieved to break out of the freelancing cycle. One employer/project theoretically beats half a dozen. Hang in there.
  • 3
    @devdiddydog I swear `count "time off" as lost income` hit home the hardest.
  • 2
    they are just lying morons
  • 1
    I feel like maybe you're travelling in online circles that may glorify the entrepreneurial spirit a bit too much? I say this because, since I've only worked for startups in the tech space, I'm adjacent to them, and yeah...

    In all those circles, anyone who is not operating fully independently is basically a dipshit broke prole peasant and an idiot, OR they're a mindless drone towing the company line and are inherently evil for doing so, and this leads a lot of folk to abandon otherwise good lives in pursuit of the immense wealth that supposedly inevitably comes with going your own way
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