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Every girlfriend I had broke up with me and it was not even my fault...

1. A bi cheating on her girlfriend - girlfriend found out
2. Furry cheating on her boyfriend - she felt bad...
3. Hysteric b** that did not trust me for even 1 second
4. Really nice and sweet girl... that could kill me if she did not take her antipsychotics - told me she is sorry but she wants someone older (I am older than her...) - her ex before me was 42....

To clarify: both 1 and 2 did not tell me they were cheating on someone with me... I only found out after the shit hit the fan.

I feel depressed... I just want to love someone and I want that someone to love me... that's it, I don't even want sex, I just want hugs, mutual trust and someone that I could tell anything on my mind without them judging me...

I know exactly what you feel... my ex-gfs didn't do that as far as I know but uh... I don't always trust and was often right...

I just need the feeling of having arrived so that I don't need to think about tomorrow. Have too many thoughts about anything and everything (un)natural, (il)logical and abstract.

May the luck be on your side. :P

Did they all break up with you at the same time?

Just a quick derail while it came up, but, Are furries still allowed pets?

Can't be broken up with if you never get into relationships 🤣🤣😭🤣

Love yourself 😎

No worries. Somewhere between 12th and 18th girlfriend you find out feelings aren't that important after all. When you start forgetting their names is when the real fun begins.

Get a dog/cat
Play multiplayer games
Give it time, I guess?

Hey bro,

I know how you feel and it is very depressing. Keep your head up and enjoy the things you do have in life, love will come eventually.

I am in a similair situation where im alone in a city because my ex girlfriend left me after moving here.

A couple of months ago I met this wonderful girl but she was living temporarily in The Netherlands and she left to go back to France again.

Currently I am also feeling the need for a soul to love, to be around, to feel comfortable and its making me feel depressed sometimes.

At those times I try to realise what I do have in my life and then I realise that I have a great job, friends and a family.

Love will find its way to you eventually

Sometimes I wonder why loving someone is really hard for other people.

Find yourself a better psychobitch: https://youtube.com/watch/...

Seriously tho, you seem to have identified a harmful pattern there, hope you can break out there!

Dam, you had 4 girlfriends while I'm still having troubles to find just one!

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@NoMad real step 1 is be hot

Step 2 don't be not hot

Learn to enjoy the time that you have with yourself, I think that this might be one of the best thing that you can do for yourself, at least that is what I'm trying and I hope that I'll get out of this shitty feeling with time.
Enjoy the little things, I hope that you'll be ok :)

furry, hysteric, antipsychotics...

except for #1, a one line summary of their personality suggest these persons could tend to have traits suggesting emotional instability, which, while being very attractive to some at first sight, makes it generally harder to build a stable long-term relationship.

while i don't want to dismiss the personal struggle of people facing mental health issues or encourage the people around them from giving up on them, i have to recognize that it can make personal relationships very hard and if it makes you very depressed, then maybe avoiding having partners with emotional instabilities could be a good idea.

Of course this doesn't cover the whole trust issue/lying/cheating side of relationships, but it should be hard enough with someone stable; don't go for the hard mode.

TLDR: a wise man once told me: don't fuck crazy

Don't jump into next relationship soon .Take time to forget the ex , move on positively . Then eventually when you meet someone who can be your soul mate . Don't rush into relationship soon , spend time to understand better then get committed . So this can reduce your chance of further breakup

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@electrineer no - I just summed up my ex-gfs that I was in relationship with at some point in my life

@norman70688 you mean the "mutual love" part?

@odite yes... she had a cat

@irene I want love and hugs - that's it

@remove32 true but no

@Nanos I feel ya

@cprn meh... not remembering people's names is an everyday thing for me

@NoMad cheers!

@mahaDev Had a cat... It died... I don't like multiplayer games... Everything I play is usually singleplayer or I can safely ignore other people (ehm... WoW) and it will play like singleplayer... Well... you see, the problem is I am alone for far too long...

@LilDev thank you, it seems that we are on the same boat... the only difference is that I have a shitty family, only one true friend who is >900km from where I live... and the work... I mean... The pay is great but the code that I am maintaining is a shitshow

@hack you and me both... you and me both...

@JFK422 trust me, having a girlfriend that does not love you is even worse than having troubles finding one... I have no clue how I got into a relationship with any one of them... I am having troubles finding a girlfriend myself

@Superviral thank you 🤗🤗❤️

@NoMad hahaha... step 1: find female friends
step 2: don't get firendzo... aaand you failed

@AlexAC53 ever tried living alone in a capital city? yea... not fun... not fun at all, you feel alone even when you are literally surrounded by people 24/7

@littledaxter well... the issue is that I just have bad luck and I only find out about those personality traits after I get into a relationship with them...

@RantSomeWhere @NoMad well... that just got weird :D

@NoMad hm... that's also an option...

@NoMad yay, I am not average

@norman70688 oh... idk what you are thinking about. I meant stuff that's imo pretty normal, like: I support LGB, some people would put me on a stake and start a fire under me, I want a girl who wouldn't mind it at all, not like "cool" and then she thinks *he is a weirdo*

I usually avoid social contact, when I feel lonely I just focus on my work. I understand you tho, feeling lonely can really bring you down.

@remove32 unless you r
Are forced to.

@TheOneFuzzyBit how are you gonna get forced into a relationship? Like what?

🤗😚 it gets better. Believe me 😌. You should be thankful that you broke up with those. Now you are single for the better ones. 😊

@remove32 I knew a guy who was attractive, but fucking shy. He could not say no to literally anything, he was unhappy with his relationship, bit wouldn't speak up once, like a pet. At some point, he looked so depressed that we literally had to force him to break up. Eventually, he did. He is now working in an administration, I held contact to him until I isolated myself. I hope he never enters a relationship like this again.

@K4R71K you entirely misunderstood my post :D

@bytecode you are depressed because the girls you met weren't what you wanted. You are striving for hugs and understanding and love.

Isn't that what it was supposed to be 😅 ?

@K4R71K ye, but it gets worse instead of better

*hugs*