My wife broke up with me.

This is probably the worst place in the world to post this.

IDK how to react to this w/o any context.

I'm sorry?

Congrats?

Based on the vibe of how you wrote this, I am assuming you're not in a good place.

You'll get through man, just power through it.

Go get drunk and punch a wall down/cry as much as u want. Anything to tame the pain.

I wish you luck, my guy.

Become a cliché. Start climbing?

I post about shitting and pissing in this place so ur rant isnt even bad compared to mines

Why that hoe broke up?

@b2plain hoe stuff y know

@atheist definitely.

@netikras Both I guess.

@horus if she broke up in order to be a whore again then thats great for you, she took the L and you took the W.

Know this: a man can never take the L when any woman breaks up. The only time a man takes the L is when You break up first, with a Feminine hot girl.

If a woman broke up: she wants to be a whore

If a hot feminine woman broke up: she found someone else who she wants to fucjk or want to party and try new stuff, in any case shes a whore

You almost can't lose

@b2plane Yes. She found someone new to fuck and party around. She said, we could stay together anyways whatever this means then, and i was like: shouldn't we care about our son instead of some fucking experiments. So technically i broke up.

Time to get a gym subscription

@horus "we could stay together" means in case my primary fuck buddy (plan A) alpha male doesnt work out, I'll always have you like a sql rollback as a pathetic beta male (plan B) to hug me and feed me, after shes stretched out by the poundtown

Hang in there

@horus maybe she's poly?

You can both still be amazing parents but split up. As long as you're good to eachother and your kid understands that it's not anyone's fault

Talk to her not us. We're fuckers online she and your kid are real.

Ask someone wise who you trust what they think

@b2plane alpha beta really? You know that stuff was debunked by it's inventor

@MammaNeedHummus

What do you expect from someone who whines like a kid about everything in the adult world?

Of course he has childish notions.

@b2plane

In case you didn't notice before, women are people too, and have their own thought trains and needs, and decisions. They are not objects to be owned by "alphas" or sought by "betas".

@MammaNeedHummus
Don’t you know the sentence of Camus ? “a man forbids himself”

If she is poly she doesn’t get married with a guy who is not ok with that

If she is she refrains her instincts

Any other choice make this person bad, unable to commit to her own choices

Any speech excusing this behaviour makes the world bad, awful to live in.

@Tounai most people grow and change as they age

Strict "marriage" like that doesn't work for everyone when your life expectancy is above 35 (maybe in the black death era).

Idk I'm not that old yet but I think people and life are too complicated to be so unrealistic (inappropriate word sorry) about such difficult things as human relationships (strong opinion but you can think what you like x)

We only last 80 years after all.
The Greeks kept it spicy as have countless peoples over the eras. Find what works for you both as you evolve

You're allowed to be sad and angry, this is just potential reasoning for why what's happened has happened OP

Best to you all x

@MammaNeedHummus

The problem is not divorcing or breaking up, but going to see another guy, telling your current one that “it can continue like this” etc, no, at some point, stop. There’s morale limits to have, or otherwise we go back to the state of nature and we live like animals. I am really fed up with people who are not able to set boundaries to what’s acceptable.

So I’ll state it right here, right now, and this shall be engraved in the marble : her behaviour is not acceptable.

@Tounai agreed they need to talk but we don't know enough to judge

Breaking up is better than divorcing?

When we get stuck on something 20 min we are supposed to stand up and take a brain break, walk it off.

Seems like you might have hit a rough patch and it is time to stand up, step away, get some air, and process.

Some things need time to heal; some things are only healed by time.

@CoreFusionX genghis khan and the bible would disagree

@MammaNeedHummus and _I AM_ the best fucker. Online. Sad.

@b2plane

I can wipe my ass with *your* bible.

Because you sure haven't exactly acted like an exemplary Christian here.

As for Genghis Khan, that was an alpha male if there were any...

You, no matter how tough you wanna sound (and basically no one nowadays) can compare. Not in an absolute scale. Society changes, like times change. Can't compare today with the 13th century.

If you truly believe so, that only proves that you should live in the 13th century, and given your general whining, Genghis Khan would have beheaded you first thing...

@Tounai can confirm it works
Got a gf recently and she stares and fondles the muscles whenever the opportunity arises

Once she ended her open relationship to start a closed one with me, because I said I am not interested in poly fuckery and stuff. She said, she neither anymore, because she tested it, saw it failing and I don't believe in this concept anymore.

So yes, I always knew, that she could change her mind again eventually. But i also know that - if I would actually accept the open relationship thing - i can absolutely not trust her to return to me, if the next guy does the same I did.

@MammaNeedHummus Believe me, we talk enough. We were never amazing parents, but will be continue being acceptable onces. We do not even fight currently but are very diplomatic to keep this working. But on the other hand am now a 75% single dad who has to take some debts, no chance for a date for decades because i am a living red flag, also imprisoned in a city which is a complete shit and which I can not leave for the next 14 years when i don't want to become a 100% single dad eventually ... so yay. I came here to rant and not for some moral preachments about my duties as a parent while i am the only taking them serious.

@b2plane When I am able to leave this piece of shit of a city i come to serbia and we drink and check hoes, ok?

@horus nothing wrong with being 100% single dad. Nobody will tell what to do and what not to do.

@horus bro why the fuck did u marry a whore who had a previous "open relationship" (which is the most bullshit cuckold concept ive ever heard and thats a story for another conversation). Thats on u. Also dont come to serbia this country is a trashhole. On 17th December we vote for a new president and if this dipshit dictator current president who's been ruling for 11 years and robbing this country for billions of dollars loses then the country might heal. But there's like 10% chance for him losing so I'm confident this country will continue to be fucked

@b2plane I did because I fell in love with her. Also she is smoking hot.

And it could have the opposite: If she really had been convinced that OR is not for her as she said (especially after I pulled her out so easily) and would still remember this, it could have been the best prevention for this shit.

Anyway I fuck this shit.